The Slacker Cat

The Cat that slacks at every corner, at the void deck of my house.
I call it "The Slacker Cat". So aptly named.

Trouble brewing

It's the wee hours of a new day. But yet I don't exactly feel new.

Here I am blogging after missing in action for the past few months. Life's been a tad more difficult than usual. Things are not going as smooth as I hope it will be.

I've been on a month No Pay Leave as of 1st July. Which basically means ZERO income. But I have no complains 'cuase I can catch up with my friends. I can meet MiMi anytime without any worries. I can sleep till the sun is going down. I can TRY to clean up my room, which I've been trying to do since the first day of July. I can go for physiotherapy without changing flights, and without the pressure for the company.

But now, I'm facing the most heart breaking point. MiMi and I have been quarrelling for the past few days. And today he say he wanted to leave me 'cause he can't take it. I have no darnest idea what went wrong, what did I do wrong, or what had exactly happened. Everything just happened in a moment of flash.

I know he's pressurized 'bout money matters. I know he's unhappy with work. I know he still wants to be an officer. But I just don't know why he's upset with me.

Please MiMi, just tell me what's wrong. I want us to be able to get through this rough patch. I want us to be able to get through all difficulties in our lives. I want to enjoy moments of joy, sweetness, laughter with you. I want to solve all problems, questions, dilemmas with you. All we need to do is to have understanding, tolerance, communication and loads of love for each other.

You got to get this drilled inside your head, heart and soul: I can only have one person in my life, and that person is you exclusively. I LOVE YOU ONLY.

But I can't do it alone.
I need you to step forward with me.

Confused....

So many things had happened for the past week... I'm getting really tired of everything.

On one fine day, i received a msg from MiMi:"Got! I want her for very long already. But hai... Not ment to be." Exact words and spacing. Nothing additional more added or left out. How do you think I will feel when I receive this kind of msg.

I replied "dun msg me anymore." No reply from him after a few mins(or rather a min or so). I gave him a call. 2 missed calls in fact to him. After a minute later I tried my luck again. He answered. I asked him does he know what he sent to me. He said "ya". I asked him what happened. He told me his "friend" MARK, used his mobile to message one of his friends, while they are on the fast-craft back to tekong.

How long is the ferry ride let me ask you. I give it a max of 20 min. Would you lent your phone to a friend to which you dun even have his mobile number? Would THAT message be sent to me if that fella pressed the button"reply"? How the message could be sent to me wrongly is only based on two reasons I came up with. One is "create a new message". The second is pressed "forward, which in Azmi's phone, I'm considered the first in the list. Which in fact the first number on his list is "A" with no number stored. He told me it is to prevent "wrongly-pressed-the-button-situation".

But fuck, it still happened. I really think that he is messaging his friend talking 'bout some girl he couldn't have. But due to the "routine" of messaging me, he pressed my number unintentinally. After which, he then realised he sent to the wrong person.

I really swear to God that this is really what happened.

Why can't he cheat behind my back and don't ever let me find out? In this way, all 3 parties can lead a happy life.

I'm hurt, because he is thinking 'bout some other girl. I'm hurt, because he lied to me and came up with such a UNBELIEVEABLE story. I'm hurt, because I now then realised that he doesn't love me that much(or at all). I'm hurt, because I love him way way way too much. I'm really hurt by him. I really thought that he could be The One.

Gosh, I'm shattered now. Will I ever have someone who loves me truthfully, sincerely, whole-heartedly?
Right now, I doubt everyone, including myself.

Stupid me, to believe this guy won't cheat anymore on the girlfriend. Stupid me, to fall in love so deeply with him. Stupid me in everything I do.

So proud of MiMi Busuk... =)

Finally have the sense to write a bit after "rust-ing" for so many days.... Have some good news and of course bad news as well...

Let's start with the bad ones first. My parents have been nagging at me to give them money... That's very bad news to me, very very bad. Then came the realisation that next month I got no money!! And I have yet to complete my minimum flight hours!!! AAARRRGGGGHHHH!!!! SHIT SHIT SHIT!!!!

Then currently I'm on a week medical leave!!! Happy, but yet at the same time, my knee DOES hurt. Actually I have no idea what the Doc told me. Well, after this week of M.C., I still have another week!!! Heehee....

Well, the thing that really made me proud is not myself(DUH... When have I ever made myself proud???!!!). IT'S MIMI!!! H e got platoon best, silver "bay-yo-net". Hee... dunno how to spell. =) He also got platoon best when he was in BMTC. Now my MiMi is a sergeant!!!

We, (Actually it's I, but we went together!) just bought a pair of rings at Plaza Singapura on Sunday... But MiMi don't really seem happy 'bout the ringy though... I love the ring cause it's really chunky and it's a ring I bought for us!!! I'm not surw how exactly he feels 'bout the rings.. But well, I'm just going to view it as a ring I really love a lot!!!!

(Part 1) Going out now...But still want to blog... Part 2 coming up....

MiMi coming back on Monday!

MiMi finally coming back on Monday!!! =)

Maybe I can finally feel loved again... Listening to Maroon5: She Will Be Loved. One of MiMi's favourite song before he was disconnected with the rest of the world.

We kind of had a small quarrel yesterday. I feel that he wasn't concern about me anymore. I felt so alone and cold. Guess I was tired 'cause I didn't have enough rest. He was asking me:" Other than me, are you been seeing other guys other than me for the past 2 weeks." Actually in fact I was pretty happy. This proves to me that he cares for me (or it is just a routine to messaged that??

He message me this morning:" NaNa must sms mimi. I say don't sms me when i got exercise. Now no more exercise Nana must sms mimi again. Morning." Was so touched....^_^

Gosh.... What am I exactly thinking these few days...???

I really longed for MiMi. .. ...

Friends and all...

How I miss my MiMi...

But you know what? In fact, I find that this is pretty good training for me in case we don't work out for the future.

Bike is out of surgery... Going to pick it up tomorrow. Me still only in Day 2 of recovery. By Thurs if things doesn't get better, I'll have to get more medical leave. *Yeay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!* But most probably I'll get better by then lar...

Reading so many blogs these few days, which includes me sleeping at only bout 3-4a.m. and waking up at those unearthly hours... I feel so much for so many things, but yet I can't comprehen my own feelings, thoughts and problems. What the hell right?? =)

I'm so confused and alone. I don't feel like sleeping cause there's no one to sleep with me, no one to keep me warm, no SMS to look forward when I'm up, no motivation to work, no one with me... The last time I cried was after the confrontation with the taxi driver. I really cried my heart out.

I was going thru some of my friends' friendster account. MiMi's friends' girlfriends seems so close. They seems to be such great friends even though they only know each other thru their boyfriends. I also know them thru my boyfriend. But how come I don't quite get along with them? Am I such an outcast in wherever I go?

They will still hang out without the boyfriends around. They will call and talk on the phone. They will ask each other out for clubbing. They talk to each other!! But I'm not "invited" and I really don't like this kind of feeling. It's really pulling me down each time they message me to ask if I want to join them last minute. I rather they don't message me at all.

It's not as if I never put in any effort to be "pally" with them. I message them if they want to go out for dinner. Well, if I'm lucky enough, 1 or 2 of them will reply. But most of the time, they don't even reply back and come up with any execuses.

I'm feeling pretty drained out to having cope with such interpersonal problems at work and with my personal life... Yet MiMi is not doing anything.

Does he know exactly how I feel? I really doubt so. He got more important things in his own life rather than to having to take care of mine. I doubt he still care about me at all.
=)

Crashed Bikey....

Just so unfortunate... I crashed my bike yesterday at East Coast.

Wanted to go there so I can take a breather... Took more than just one in the end. =)
I slammed into the backside of the taxi... What happened?? No idea. I only remember that I saw the taxi's red trunk....!!!

I flew forward and then dropped to the side. Luckily I wasn't knocked unconscious. *This proves that I'm a very safe rider. =) *. Definately was in shock, was trembling like hell. At that point of time, I felt really alone. I felt that I have lost my MiMi. I just wanted to cry right on the spot.

But I didn't. I braced myself up for the confrontation. I did myself proud. I took my DigiCam and photographed the damages to the taxi. I took down his particulars. I asked him to come to my car workshop to repair his slightly dented bumper. I asked him to settle the matter tomorrow as I 'm in mild shock. I really feel so proud of how I handle this matter.

Alas, then the pain came. Scratched my left wrist a bit. Badly bruised and sprained both my legs. Injured my pelvis bone. Sprained neck area to the right all the way down to my right arm. Having difficulties to breathe, walk, getting off the bed and much more....

My bike "injuries"? Twisted fork. Ferring broke off. Masket crashed. Front head cracked. Fuel tank cover deeply dented. Well, you can estimate how much I'll got to spend for it's surgery.... =)

Also, the taxi driver want to claim S$300 from me!!! He must think that I'm a dumb-arse. Maximum I'm only going to pay S$100. Take it or report the case. I really also don't know what to do. Only gotta wait for his call....

When to see my own Doc just now. But was referred to the A&E for more detailed examination. On 4 days medical leave and "got to observe my own condition".

Tomorrow will start doing all the reports and claims.... I can already feel my money slipping away from my grip.

MiMi is not around to comfort me. I don't blame him. I can only blame myself. =)

Month end already....

Gee.... It's the end of the month already... Money all used up already also...

The company said that we will have to clean the aircraft ourselves starting from 1st Feb... Oh my gosh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have to be a cleaner as well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MiMi will be going away on the 12th Feb 2a.m. Can't see him for at least 3 weeks.... Can't get to talk to him in the 1st week he goes to Thailand... *sad sad sad* Somemore my schedule is so tight for the whole month!!

Feel liked baking something... But too bad, the oven is not in operation... =)

Dunno why.... I feel like giving up.... Why do I always give up so easily???

Still very sian...

Got back from Perth yesterday.... Was an OK trip... But what made me happy is the amount of wonderful, fantastic, mouth-watering fruits and food I bought!!!! Nectarines at A$2.49 per kilo! Toothpaste-style instant coffee mix!! Cheese-crispbread dip by Uncle Toby which is definately not found in Singapore!!! Jesters Pies and.... *YUMMY!!!*..... and..... =)

Finally got to see my MiMi from 'bout 2 hours plus last night. Went to Kino then went to his house. While watching TV, he looked real bored. Somehow I got pissed and disappointed. Pissed is because when I asked if he's bored, he said yes. The next second I asked the same question again and he said no. What does that mean?? Yes or No??? Disappointed because he didn't even take the effort to make me happy. He doesn't try to make me laugh anymore.

He asked me why I don't seem to care for him anymore.Why I become so different with my concern. I feel like telling him, "why don't you ask yourself the same question you asked me." But I didn't. As I said, I just don't know how to feel anymore. It's really pathetic and sad when you feel this way.

Gotta work tomorrow... It's not so bad yet. The worase will be on the 18th-19th Jan, 21th and 25th Jan...I'll be working together "hand-in-hand" with dear Miss M. Doubt she will forget 'bout that fateful day when I stepped on her beautiful arse.

Why am I feeling this way? Feel so alone.
=

Tired....

A rest day finally...

Did I mentioned I finally got a digital camera?? Cost me S$650!!!! Plus one 512SD Card of S$67!!! And I don't have much chance to use it. =p

But never mind!!! My next target is iPod!!! Either a 20G or 40G will do. =)

Going to Perth(again) tomorrow... Betta remember to change currency... Once I didn't have enough Aussie dollar with me and went to the money changer with ONE Sing ten dollar... Got back only SEVEN AUSSIE DOLLARS nia!! =s

During one conversation with my collegue, she asked me if I ever felt meaningless in this job. This question really sank in my mind... What exactly do I get from this job. I guess it's the same answer all over again:MONEY...

One of my batch girls got hooked up with a flight operation fella. They are so in honeymoon period now. Come to think 'bout it... Does my MiMi plan any special things on special occasions?? Not that I can recall of. Am I expecting too much from him because of what other couples do?? Maybe so... But then again, woman are ALWAYS like that. And I'm definately no different from those woman. =)

Didn't get the chance to talk to my MiMi since yesterday morning SMS... Sometimes I just don't feel anything anymore.... Sometimes sometimes sometimes....

Is it my job that is making me insecure and "in-confident"?? 'Bout my relationship with MiMi? 'Bout my friends? 'Bout myself? 'Bout everything...

Any instant, 3-in-1 solution??

=)

Supposed to be a nice day...

Well... It WAS definately supposed to be a nice day... But unfortunately, I "stepped on a nonsensical Crew-In-Charge(a.k.a. Miss M) short waggy tail". Like to know what happened? This is how the story goes....

I was so happy to finish work after being unable to sleep the previous night. So as I was nearing the exit door, the next set of crew came in to take over the aircraft. So being in the joyous, festival, celebratary, I went forward to Miss M and said :"Happy New Year!!". She replied back with the same and also a curt smile on her face.

In the next instant moment, her face turned real "dark" and asked me what's my name. Was in shock because her attitude changed faster than any magician can perform tricks!! Told her my name and got this reply:"Don't take it for granted that I will know your name. Next time please take the initative to introduce yourself to any of the crew until they recognised you.

My my.... What a lightning speed, high revolution punch that was to my already-small-enough-ego. Poor me, what to do.... I just apologized and walk out with a bitter smile.

Things not over yet. As one of the trainer was on board, she immediately complained to her!!! As the exiting crew were walking out of the aerobridge, the trainer told me the same thing what Miss M said to me. But of 'coz with a "nicer" tone....

That really spoil my day. Really destroy it....

Went home then to check the roster for the rest of the month... Bless me my Lord, for I still have TWO flights with her!!! One back from Perth. The other one is HKG!!! A total of 12 hours with her!!!! "Forgive me for I have sinned". =(

Also today MiMi outfield...only managed to message in the dawn... After which my mobile went into a state of silence.... *Sad sad*....

What have I exactly done to get all these bulls%#t....

Give me a sign my Almighty.
=(

Oh ya...HI DIANE!!!!
=)